Results 3 issues of shyla226

Fix for ticket CASSANDRA-17422: Test Failure: org.apache.cassandra.net.OutboundMessageQueueTest.testRemove-cdc

Limits Cassandra 5.0 startup to JDK11 & JDK17. An option -J has been added to bypass this limit

This initial commit is to get some feedback on the memtable implementation. The code was tested using 'ant test'. Some of the changes 1) Code has a dependency on [Low...