feat: kq commitinorder support trace

[zhuud]

Greptile Summary

Added OpenTelemetry tracing support to Kafka queue implementation, enabling distributed tracing across message processing with standardized context propagation.

• Added kq/internal/trace.go implementing MessageCarrier interface for OpenTelemetry context handling
• Added trace context injection in PushWithKey method using OpenTelemetry propagator
• Added trace context extraction in extractCtxFromMsg function for consistent tracing
• Enhanced error handling with context-aware logging in consumeOne method
• Updated dependencies in go.mod to support OpenTelemetry integration

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