sos-notebook tests fail because `ipykernel.tests` are no longer available

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Rephrased from bug identified by @danielnachun: In our test,

import unittest

from sos_notebook.test_utils import sos_kernel
from ipykernel.tests.utils import execute, wait_for_idle, assemble_output

the last line does not work anymore, because even though this exists on GitHub, https://github.com/ipython/ipykernel/blob/main/tests/utils.py the pypi release does not contain it anymore: in the pyproject.toml for ipykernel on PyPI:

omit = [
  "tests/*",
  "ipykernel/datapub.py",
  "ipykernel/debugger.py",
  "ipykernel/eventloops.py",
  "ipykernel/log.py",
  "ipykernel/pickleutil.py",
  "ipykernel/serialize.py",
  "ipykernel/gui/*",
  "ipykernel/pylab/*",
]

So that means the tests folder is skipped by pip install. This results in failed tests of sos-notebook and thus rejection of any further updates to conda-forge. Not sure what our options are (other than removing tests) since it seems to be out of our hands that they decided to not include them. Or we copy and ship the test util with sos-notebook?