Add query.max-write-physical-bytes property

[vvvvh123]

Description

This pull request adds a new config and session property: query.max_write_physical_bytes, similar to the existing query.max_scan_physical_bytes. It allows users to set an upper limit on the total physical bytes written by a query.

Additional context and related issues

For #25955

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## General
* Add query.max-write-physical-bytes property ({issue}`25955`)