Add preferred timeout for small dynamic filters

[Dith3r]

Description

Add a CBO rule to estimate if dynamic filter is worth waiting for. Focus on small tables that are most often used as dimension tables and nodes that generate small number of distinct values.

Rule DeterminePreferredDynamicFilterTimeout could allow us to remove 20s forced wait time for every possible DF in JDBC connectors if table presents the least row count statistic.

Query	Baseline duration[s]	PR duration[s]
tpcds/q59	12.10	4.55
tpcds/q02	9.63	3.47
tpcds/q36	5.82	2.60
tpcds/q53	8.04	4.80
tpcds/q13	7.7	5.1

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# General
* Improve performance of queries with selective joins. ({issue}`22527`)