fix(ios): fixed multiple matching destinations warning for SDK build and clean app build

[hbugdoll]

Introduction:

Xcode's multiple matching destinations warnings have been a topic in the past, see discussion https://github.com/tidev/titanium-sdk/discussions/13174, and was fixed for app build by https://github.com/tidev/titanium-sdk/pull/13098.

Typical example:

--- xcodebuild: WARNING: Using the first of multiple matching destinations:
{ platform:macOS, variant:Mac Catalyst, name:Any Mac }
{ platform:iOS, id:dvtdevice-DVTiPhonePlaceholder-iphoneos:placeholder, name:Any iOS Device }
{ platform:iOS Simulator, id:dvtdevice-DVTiOSDeviceSimulatorPlaceholder-iphonesimulator:placeholder, name:Any iOS Simulator Device }
{ platform:macOS, arch:arm64, variant:Mac Catalyst, id:00006030-001E394822D9001C, name:My Mac }
{ platform:macOS, arch:x86_64, variant:Mac Catalyst, id:00006030-001E394822D9001C, name:My Mac }
{ platform:macOS, arch:arm64, variant:Designed for [iPad,iPhone], id:00006030-001E394822D9001C, name:My Mac }
{ platform:iOS Simulator, arch:arm64, id:3D0541B0-0B11-40A8-9326-A0587E91A26D, OS:15.5, name:iPad (9th generation) }
...

Currently, as false positive errors, they repeatedly cause confusion and misdirection during troubleshooting ([1], [2], [3], [4], [5]).

Edit: This may also fix xcodebuild: error: Found no destinations for the scheme ... and action clean.

Description:

• added -destination in shell scripts for SDK build (invoking xcodebuild archive)
• added -destination in cleanXcodeDerivedData() for cleaning in app build (invoking xcodebuild clean)
  • analogous to invokeXcodeBuild()