refactor!: require the builder pattern for module initalisation

[CommanderStorm]

This PR makes sure that the way structs are constructed is consistent and encourages the builder pattern. It is based on this question: https://github.com/testcontainers/testcontainers-rs-modules-community/pull/156#discussion_r1660236432

For the changelog:

We now require you to use the builder pattern (instead of some structs being unit structs) for all modules. This ensures that if we add a field in the future that this will not break your existing code.

This change is breaking for these modules:

Module	before	after
cncf_distribution::CncfDistribution	CncfDistribution.start()	CncfDistribution::default().start()
dynamodb_local::DynamoDb	DynamoDb.start()	DynamoDb::default().start()
elasticmq::ElasticMq	ElasticMq.start()	ElasticMq::default().start()
~mongo::Mongo~ (see #143)	~Mongo.start()~	~Mongo::default().start()~
kwok::KwokCluster	KwokCluster.start()	KwokCluster::default().start()
rabbitmq::RabbitMq	RabbitMq.start()	RabbitMq::default().start()
redis::stack::RedisStack	RedisStack.start()	RedisStack::default().start()
redis::standalone::Redis	Redis.start()	Redis::default().start()
victoria_metrics::VictoriaMetrics	VictoriaMetrics.start()	VictoriaMetrics::default().start()