Postgres: update help to be clear about unmanaged

[andie787]

Change Summary

What and Why: update the Fly Postgres help text and the final prompt when you run fly pg create to emphasize that it's not a managed solution.

How: change text

Related to:

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Documentation

• [ ] Fresh Produce
• [ ] In superfly/docs, or asked for help from docs team
• [ ] n/a