keep gossip address the same as the actor address

[runsisi]

[jeromegn]

Is that causing issues?

[runsisi]

we store actor address (self.external_addr().unwrap_or_else(|| self.gossip_addr()))^1 in __corro_members table^2, while in spawn_swim_announcer to skip local node announce^3 gossip address (gossip_server_endpoint.local_addr())^4 is used as local address, i.e., our_addr. i think this is not correct.

maybe we should change generate_bootstrap ^5 signiture to ignore skip both gossip address and external address?

[somtochiama]

maybe we should change generate_bootstrap 5 signiture to ignore skip both gossip address and external address?

@runsisi I think this is a better solution.