feat(telemetry)_: add metrics for message reliability

[adklempner]

Adds metrics for missed messages, delivery confirmation, and peer count by shard/origin.

Tracks additional events in telemetry:

• when a message is successfully delivered
• when a check against a store node detects missed messages (with a separate count for if it was a message relevant to the user, as determined if the filter matches)
• when a dial to a peer fails, what kind of failure was encountered

Important changes:

• Depends on https://github.com/status-im/telemetry/pull/69

Dogfooding PR: https://github.com/status-im/status-desktop/pull/16540