Media collections are lazy loaded with `preventLazyLoading()` enabled

[sebastiaanluca]

This concerns https://github.com/spatie/laravel-medialibrary/pull/2784

I noticed in our old admin panel that we had a lot of lazy loaded media relations. We didn't get a warning about it (for 2 years 😄), even with Model::preventLazyLoading(); enabled globally. The cause for this is that doing loadMissing() on each object in a loop doesn't trigger the exception even though it's technically an n+1 issue.

The solution to this is to always eager load relations manually in the controller, not in models or traits. Removing this would be a breaking change, but are you open to it? I expect a lot of package users have tons of n+1 media issues but aren't aware, unless you manually inspect the debug bar queries for each page you use media in collections.