Rework the release build scripts

[joeraz]

The release scripts have been causing some significant trouble lately.

I've been doing what I can to keep them running, but unfortunately, environment configuration has never been a strong suit of mine. I've had to use several hacks just to keep them working. On more than one occasion, this led to some partially broken builds, and while I've been able to get them somewhat stable for the moment, I'm reaching a point where the number of workarounds and occasional issues is starting to add up to the point where I fear I might eventually be unable to do any more releases.

Here are the recent issues that I'm aware of:

• The newly released Pillow 10.0 no longer offers 32-bit wheels, which was an intentional decision by the Pillow team. This causes AppVeyor's build to fail. If I update to use a 64-bit Python build, the Windows installer will generate, but after installing it, I get an error "PyInstaller: FormatMessageW failed" when I try to run the installed version. I have to force it to use Pillow version 9.5 as a workaround.
• PyGame has recently stopped working on the Windows installed version, so the music won't play. It works fine when running from source code on the same machine.
• The Mac release is still using Python 3.9. Would like to update it to Python 3.11 (issue #322). I tried to update it before, but this created a broken build, and I don't have any ability to test Mac packages, so changes to that script are pretty much trial and error.
• Issue #246 has resurfaced a couple times recently, where SourceForge tacks on the ?viasf=1 to the end of the filename of the cardsets package the script downloads. This happens sometimes, but other times, it doesn't - I think it might be a bad mirror, but I'd like to try and find a more permanent fix, so I'm not constantly changing file names in the GitHub action script as a workaround.
• Not as urgent as the above items, but I'd also like to get the scripts set up so I can choose to generate separate builds of the package with the full cardsets package in addition to the normal builds, for releases.

Pillow 10.0.0 created a compatibility issue. I resolved it, but it's going to need a release, as I already had a couple people bring it up. I don't feel comfortable even offering a beta 2.21 release with the current scripts. At least if I can get PyGame running right, I could make do with the workarounds on the other items for a 2.21, and we can do a 2.22 (or 3.0) release later with better packages. But for now, I can't really keep these scripts going as-is.