feat(reload/enable): add settings for services

[mdschmitt]

PR progress checklist (to be filled in by reviewers)

• [x] Changes to documentation are appropriate (or tick if not required)
• [ ] Changes to tests are appropriate (or tick if not required)
• [ ] Reviews completed

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What type of PR is this?

Primary type

• [ ] [build] Changes related to the build system
• [ ] [chore] Changes to the build process or auxiliary tools and libraries such as documentation generation
• [ ] [ci] Changes to the continuous integration configuration
• [x] [feat] A new feature
• [ ] [fix] A bug fix
• [ ] [perf] A code change that improves performance
• [ ] [refactor] A code change that neither fixes a bug nor adds a feature
• [ ] [revert] A change used to revert a previous commit
• [ ] [style] Changes that do not affect the meaning of the code (white-space, formatting, missing semi-colons, etc.)

Secondary type

• [ ] [docs] Documentation changes
• [ ] [test] Adding missing or correcting existing tests

Does this PR introduce a BREAKING CHANGE?

No, the defaults set in the code still produce the same behavior.

Related issues and/or pull requests

Fixes: #80

Describe the changes you're proposing

Add a config value to the pillar to allow for reload-instead-of-restart and/or not enabling services on boot.

Pillar / config required to test the proposed changes

Details added to pillar.example, basically

prometheus:
  pkg:
    component:
      prometheus:
       service:
         enable: false # to disable the prometheus service on boot
         reload: true # to reload prometheus on changes instead of restarting every time

Debug log showing how the proposed changes work

Documentation checklist

• [ ] Updated the README (e.g. Available states).
• [x] Updated pillar.example.

Testing checklist

• [ ] Included in Kitchen (i.e. under state_top).
• [ ] Covered by new/existing tests (e.g. InSpec, Serverspec, etc.).
• [ ] Updated the relevant test pillar.

Additional context