feat(core): add `selectedOptionsOrder` in `useSelect`

[Dominic-Preap]

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What is the current behavior?

Cannot sort selectedOptions at the top of list when use useSelect with defaultValue.

What is the new behavior?

feat: add selectedOptionsOrder in useSelect

fixes # (https://github.com/refinedev/refine/issues/6061)

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[Dominic-Preap]

Okay I'll update it tonight.