fix: exception thrown in useMediaQuery when unsupported, add option to disable the hook

[rawpixel-vincent]

fix #1580 and add an option to allow the match to be disabled conditionally

add tests 🟢

[rawpixel-vincent]

please review the test implementation, I've never used vitest before.

in the test should return undefined and not thrown on unsupported when not enabled: I've verified that the console stub would throw when enabled is true