[CI] Add options for release test run to run only likely failing tests

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Why are these changes needed?

In https://docs.google.com/document/d/1JC_dHCBkmU7dZY6CaqCFI55zRQo-zNnBeDq5BUGwdBg/edit#heading=h.kbv9vy7pjqaz, I made a proposal to using a test-behavior based coverage to run only tests that are likely to fail. At the same time, we would also want to run tests more often, so bisecting and creating issues for failing test is more prompt.

This PR add flags to build-pipeline.py to be able to run only tests that are likely to fail. Also add option to run tests that belong to a certain team.

Related issue number

Issue #34242

Checks

• [X] I've signed off every commit(by using the -s flag, i.e., git commit -s) in this PR.
• [X] I've run scripts/format.sh to lint the changes in this PR.
• [X] I've made sure the tests are passing. Note that there might be a few flaky tests, see the recent failures at https://flakey-tests.ray.io/
• Testing Strategy
  • [X] Release tests - https://buildkite.com/ray-project/release-tests-pr/builds/34595

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