CCCL 3.2 resource ref compatibility

[bdice]

Description

This PR implements a "bridge" for CCCL 3.2 compatibility while retaining support for resources stored as device_memory_resource*. This is a different approach than #2162/#2166 and hopefully will be a better solution.

Before merging, we need to run C++ and Python tests for all of RAPIDS with both CCCL 3.1 and 3.2.

Part of https://github.com/rapidsai/rmm/issues/2143.

Checklist

• [ ] I am familiar with the Contributing Guidelines.
• [ ] New or existing tests cover these changes.
• [ ] The documentation is up to date with these changes.

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