update pre-commit hook versions, mark wheels as pure python

[jameslamb]

We recently observed some issues with Python 3.12 + older flake8 versions across RAPIDS: https://github.com/rapidsai/build-planning/issues/101.

This proposes updating all the pre-commit hooks in this repo (pre-commit autoupdate) to avoid such issues the next time someone comes to push new commits here.

While doing this, I also discovered that wheel CI here was broken by https://github.com/rapidsai/shared-workflows/pull/213 (see https://github.com/rapidsai/jupyterlab-nvdashboard/pull/205#discussion_r1767661424). This fixes that as well.