Replace locking fieldmap with concurrent safe haxmap

[matejsp]

I have replaced the locking of fieldmap with haxmap (A lightning fast concurrent hashmap): https://github.com/alphadose/haxmap

[michaelwilner]

Does this demonstrate improved performance on the ParseMessage benchmark?

[kcross-ctoken]

Its a lot simpler so it would save on maintenance. Just be weary that sometimes the no-contention mechanisms mean its eventually consistent (buffered writes or delayed writes) which might pose problems with direct set and get code.

[matejsp]

I just benchmarked and it seems that id does not work better. I suspect the issue is with haxmap doing initial allocation that is more slow while working on existing haxmap is a lot faster. But since we create lots of haxmaps it is actually not faster. I tested the performance with and without rwmutex:

without rwmutex:
BenchmarkParseMessage-16          	 2524971	       480.8 ns/op	      20 B/op	       2 allocs/op

with rwmutext:
BenchmarkParseMessage-16          	 2283403	       528.4 ns/op	      20 B/op	       2 allocs/op

with haxmap:
BenchmarkParseMessage-16          	  843738	      1353 ns/op	    1536 B/op	      34 allocs/op

The issue that we actually had with parsing is not related to rwmutext but to repeating_groups because they are parsed on each get and it's taking 30% of our processing:

I will do another PR to try to solve this.