✨[Feature] Explore using the STABLE_TORCH_LIBRARY API

[narendasan]

Is your feature request related to a problem? Please describe.

Torch-TensorRT builds are deeply tied to the PyTorch version they are compiled with. Typically a lot of import errors are due to version mismatch issue therefore to use latest Torch-TensorRT users are forced to upgrade their Torch version

Describe the solution you'd like

Use the STABLE_TORCH_LIBRARY API https://docs.pytorch.org/docs/stable/notes/libtorch_stable_abi.html to solve these ABI incompatibility issues

Describe alternatives you've considered

Python-only solve this problem as well but has significant drawbacks when it comes to workflow support

Additional context

While this feature is developing we should probably conditionally build it so maybe maintain a stable and non stable registration that we control with a bazel flag