support object cache in ssd l2 cache and add more unit tests

[zhaojuanmao]

Summary: X-link: https://github.com/facebookresearch/FBGEMM/pull/2220

support object cache in the ssd db cache stack for allowing cache value size that is larger than 4M bytes

Differential Revision: D88427030

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