Deduplicate pythonwarnings to fix -W duplication

[tanuj-rai]

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What this PR does:

This PR adds deduplication step after the second command-line argument parse in _pytest/config/init.py to ensure that --pythonwarnings (-W) values are unique.

closes #13484

Who can review: @bluetech @nicoddemus @RonnyPfannschmidt