[BUG]: 'static object' caused memory leak shown in asan & valgrind results.

[seulchanson]

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What version (or hash if on master) of pybind11 are you using?

pybind headonly 2.11.1

Problem description

Reproducible example code

No response

Is this a regression? Put the last known working version here if it is.

Not a regression