Add guards for incompatible parameters in language server

[glennsarti]

With https://github.com/lingua-pupuli/puppet-vscode/pull/188 merged we need to update options parser so that incompatible options throw errors.

i.e.

• Can't use ip or port with the stdio transport
• Can't use --debug=STDOUT with the stdio transport

Relates to https://github.com/lingua-pupuli/puppet-vscode/pull/187

https://github.com/lingua-pupuli/puppet-vscode/issues/191