Bump kind node images to 1.31 and latest patches

[sunjayBhatia]

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Also updates compat matrix

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All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests :white_check_mark:

Project coverage is 81.76%. Comparing base (808864b) to head (86e6a58). Report is 7 commits behind head on main.

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