wrapper: delay recursion checking

[yfguo]

Pull Request Description

The script will run recursively if no command line option is provides. Delaying the check remove a confusing warning message.

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[yfguo]

test:mpich/ch4/ofi

[yfguo]

Found the problem of why the -help is not working properly. Seems we dropped some file when we do make install. Need to find a better way to fix it.