feat: deprecate some APIs toward v5

[dai-shi]

This is to deprecate some features which will be removed in v5.

• zustand/context
• store.destory
• create(store)

They are not often used, have better alternatives, and/or can mislead usages.

There's no plan about v5 (btw, minimal requirement will be react 18) yet, but this PR would be good to get some feedback in advance.