Add files whitelist to change detection

[jhamon]

Problem

We only want to trigger post-merge actions on some files

Solution

Implement a DIFF_WHITELIST env variable that is used to limit the output from git diff

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Type of Change

• [ ] Bug fix (non-breaking change which fixes an issue)
• [x] New feature (non-breaking change which adds functionality)
• [ ] Breaking change (fix or feature that would cause existing functionality to not work as expected)
• [ ] This change requires a documentation update
• [x] Infrastructure change (CI configs, etc)
• [ ] Non-code change (docs, etc)
• [ ] None of the above: (explain here)