Use idea-ext plugin to support intellij native gradle import

[robert3005]

Gradle recently switched their repo from using ./gradlew idea to using native intellij import. In order to do this we need to make sure we work fine with project per source set option and do not perform custom xml manipulation of intellij files but instead use idea-ext plugin if necessary

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