Implement soft-delete for identities

[alnr]

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Describe your problem

Deleting identities is slow because of cascading deletes through foreign keys.

Describe your ideal solution

Use the identity's status field to store a new state: deleted.

Use database triggers to make sure the updated_at column is always updated (bypassing pop).

Implement async hard deletes. For CRDB, we can use row-level TTLs of status combined with the updated_at timestamp.

Workarounds or alternatives

not sure

Version

master

Additional Context

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