Make auto instrumentation use the same dependency resolver as manual instrumentation does

[rjduffner]

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Description

In order for the auto instrumentation to use the same dependency checker as the instrumentation itself, I introduce an exception that allows for an early exit from instrument function through the distro and back to the _load.

Fixes #3201

Type of change

• [x] New feature (non-breaking change which adds functionality)

How Has This Been Tested?

• Updated existing tests to handle the case of the new dependency check
• Added a new test to make sure that when a dependency conflict gets returned to the instrument function, it raises an exception.

Does This PR Require a Core Repo Change?

• [x] No.

Checklist:

See contributing.md for styleguide, changelog guidelines, and more.

• [x] Followed the style guidelines of this project
• [x] Changelogs have been updated
• [x] Unit tests have been added