Consider making share test base for testing AutoInstrumentation and "instruments" lists

[jeremydvoss]

What problem do you want to solve?

All instrumentations are lacking in thorough autoinstrumentation tests

Describe the solution you'd like

Consider taking the logic in [this pr](: https://github.com/open-telemetry/opentelemetry-python-contrib/pull/2860) and modularizing it to be easily used across all instrumentations. Make sure that a breaking change like this would still break the tests.

Describe alternatives you've considered

No response

Additional Context

No response

Would you like to implement a fix?

None