Include the incubating dependency in the published pom as an optional dependency

[trask]

Resolves #7119

The published poms for the related modules, e.g. for io.opentelemetry:opentelemetry-sdk-trace, would now include:

    <dependency>
      <groupId>io.opentelemetry</groupId>
      <artifactId>opentelemetry-api-incubator</artifactId>
      <version>1.48.0-alpha</version>
      <scope>runtime</scope>
      <optional>true</optional>
    </dependency>
  </dependencies>

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[jack-berg]

See https://github.com/open-telemetry/opentelemetry-java/pull/7157 for a possible alternative

[jkwatson]

what's the status on this, @trask ? Let's get it merged or closed in favor of the other one.

[trask]

closing in favor of the less invasive #7157