[CI] Increase code coverage of iwyu and clang-tidy ci jobs

[dbarker]

Changes

• Adds cmake cache initialization files for opentelemetry-cpp options in test_common/cmake
• Run clang tidy in a matrix
  • all-options-abiv1-preview (ABI version 1 plus all the cmake options including preview features)
  • all-options-abiv2-preview (ABI version 2 plus all the cmake options including preview features)
• Adds a warning limit for each clang-tidy job (this job will now fail if additional warnings are added)
• Run iwyu in a matrix
  • all-options-abiv1 (no preview features)
  • all-options-abiv1-preview
  • all-options-abiv2-preview

For significant contributions please make sure you have completed the following items:

• [ ] CHANGELOG.md updated for non-trivial changes
• [ ] Unit tests have been added
• [ ] Changes in public API reviewed