[SDK] Fix forceflush may wait for ever

[owent]

Fixes #2574

May also fixes #2583

Changes

• Using a sequence to check if a complete notification includes the datas when call ForceFlush.

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[owent]

@ThomsonTan Is there any problem in this PR? Maybe we can close #2553 if this PR is merged. It fixes the same problems as #2553 do and also fix the simular problems in trace and logs.

[ThomsonTan]

BTW, can you explain in brief that why the sequence notification can break the potential forever wait? Thanks.

[owent]

BTW, can you explain in brief that why the sequence notification can break the potential forever wait? Thanks.

When more than one threads call ForceFlush concurrency, is_force_flush_notified may be set true only once in background thread and one of the threads call ForceFlush will wait is_force_flush_notified for ever.

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[marcalff]

Adding ok-to-merge.

Waiting to give @lalitb and @esigo a chance to comment, and planning to merge early next week.