test: enforce better never-settling-promise detection

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Tests should be explicit regarding whether a promise is expected to settle, and the test should fail when the behavior does not meet expectations.

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Codecov Report

:white_check_mark: All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests. :white_check_mark: Project coverage is 88.53%. Comparing base (37d9cfc) to head (f510bd2). :warning: Report is 24 commits behind head on main.

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+ Coverage   88.51%   88.53%   +0.02%     
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  Files         703      703              
  Lines      208430   208430              
  Branches    40198    40202       +4     
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+ Hits       184491   184540      +49     
+ Misses      15951    15897      -54     
- Partials     7988     7993       +5     

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CI: https://ci.nodejs.org/job/node-test-pull-request/70404/

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