lib,src,test: fix tests without SQLite

[aduh95]

Opening as draft to test it. Nix changes will be taken to a separate PR.

Triggered by https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/60902

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Review requested:

• [ ] @nodejs/actions
• [ ] @nodejs/config

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Codecov Report

:white_check_mark: All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests. :white_check_mark: Project coverage is 88.52%. Comparing base (e28656a) to head (672f50e). :warning: Report is 14 commits behind head on main.

Additional details and impacted files

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  Coverage   88.51%   88.52%           
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  Files         703      703           
  Lines      208496   208496           
  Branches    40213    40212    -1     
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+ Hits       184555   184568   +13     
- Misses      15955    15958    +3     
+ Partials     7986     7970   -16     

Files with missing lines	Coverage Δ
src/node_options.cc	77.80% <ø> (-0.11%)	:arrow_down:
src/node_options.h	97.89% <100.00%> (ø)

... and 41 files with indirect coverage changes

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CI: https://ci.nodejs.org/job/node-test-pull-request/70484/

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CI: https://ci.nodejs.org/job/node-test-pull-request/70486/

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