Add --max-heap-size option

[tannal]

This PR fixs #58686

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Review requested:

• [ ] @nodejs/config

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Codecov Report

:white_check_mark: All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests. :white_check_mark: Project coverage is 89.91%. Comparing base (5fe7800) to head (a57cee3). :warning: Report is 321 commits behind head on main.

Additional details and impacted files

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- Coverage   90.16%   89.91%   -0.26%     
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  Files         637      655      +18     
  Lines      188001   192830    +4829     
  Branches    36881    37791     +910     
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+ Hits       169509   173379    +3870     
- Misses      11238    12004     +766     
- Partials     7254     7447     +193     

Files with missing lines	Coverage Δ
src/node_options.cc	84.71% <100.00%> (+0.26%)	:arrow_up:

... and 211 files with indirect coverage changes

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[lluisemper]

Hey @tannal, great job on putting together this PR 🚀

Just a quick heads-up: there's a specific process the project follows for making changes, including commit message formatting and code style guidelines. You can check it out here: https://github.com/nodejs/node/blob/main/doc/contributing/pull-requests.md#the-process-of-making-changes

Totally happy to help if you need a hand navigating any of it, feel free to reach out!

[haramj]

@tannal Can I open a new PR to fix this issue?

[tannal]

@tannal Can I open a new PR to fix this issue?

It's up to you. I don't think we need another pr.