dns: stop using deprecated `ares_query`

[avivkeller]

Ref: #52464

ares_query has been deprecated in favor of ares_query_dnsrec, so this PR switches our implementation to use it.

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Review requested:

• [ ] @nodejs/net

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CI: https://ci.nodejs.org/job/node-test-pull-request/63165/

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Codecov Report

Attention: Patch coverage is 66.66667% with 7 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.

Project coverage is 88.43%. Comparing base (fa8f149) to head (e9916ad). Report is 93 commits behind head on main.

Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
src/cares_wrap.cc	41.66%	7 Missing :warning:

Additional details and impacted files

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+ Coverage   88.41%   88.43%   +0.01%     
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  Files         652      654       +2     
  Lines      186918   187661     +743     
  Branches    36072    36119      +47     
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+ Hits       165270   165949     +679     
- Misses      14891    14946      +55     
- Partials     6757     6766       +9     

Files with missing lines	Coverage Δ
src/cares_wrap.h	79.89% <100.00%> (+2.18%)	:arrow_up:
src/cares_wrap.cc	65.16% <41.66%> (ø)

... and 143 files with indirect coverage changes

[avivkeller]

Hey, can I have some reviews? Thanks!

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CI: https://ci.nodejs.org/job/node-test-pull-request/63332/

[avivkeller]

CI is 🟢 ! Can somone commit-queue this? Thx!

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