Increase minimum macOS version

[anonrig]

std::format("hello {}", "world") is not available before 13.3, and we support 11. Is there any reason not to update minimum macOS version in the next major?

• macOS 11 release date -> 2020
• macOS 13 release date -> 2022

/Applications/Xcode.app/Contents/Developer/Platforms/MacOSX.platform/Developer/SDKs/MacOSX.sdk/usr/include/c++/v1/__format/formatter_floating_point.h:73:32: error: 'to_chars' is unavailable: introduced in macOS 13.3
  to_chars_result __r = _VSTD::to_chars(__first, __last, __value, __fmt, __precision);

../../src/node_file.cc:2159:25: note: in instantiation of function template specialization 'std::format<char *>' requested here
    auto message = std::format("src and dest cannot be the same %s", src.out());

cc @nodejs/build @nodejs/tsc