WIP net: enable emitclose in socket

[dnlup]

This is a WIP. It might take a while.

This PR should enable emitClose in net.Socket, ideally without changing any tests.

Fixes: #36636

Checklist

• [ ] make -j4 test (UNIX), or vcbuild test (Windows) passes
• [ ] tests and/or benchmarks are included
• [ ] documentation is changed or added
• [ ] commit message follows commit guidelines

[dnlup]

@dnlup nit: I think it should be: ~Ref: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/36636~ Fixes: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/36636

Yup, thank you @RaisinTen

[dnlup]

I am trying to figure out the test failures, maybe I should mark this draft as ready to run tests in the CI. This implementation is the one that makes more sense to me atm.