[stable26] fix(dav): Make `createCalendarObject` atomic

[susnux]

Summary

Partial backport of https://github.com/nextcloud/server/pull/36528

Checklist

• Code is properly formatted
• Sign-off message is added to all commits
• [ ] Tests (unit, integration, api and/or acceptance) are included
• [ ] Screenshots before/after for front-end changes
• [ ] Documentation (manuals or wiki) has been updated or is not required
• [ ] Backports requested where applicable (ex: critical bugfixes)