feat: Add connection error handle

[jiayisheji]

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What kind of change does this PR introduce?

• [ ] Bugfix
• [x] Feature
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• [ ] Refactoring (no functional changes, no api changes)
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What is the current behavior?

Issue Number: #1247

What is the new behavior?

Described here: #1247

Does this PR introduce a breaking change?

• [x] Yes
• [ ] No

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