[DataGrid] Allow to control the indeterminate checkbox behavior

[MBilalShafi]

Extracted from #13757 as suggested by @arminmeh Part of #7753

https://deploy-preview-14247--material-ui-x.netlify.app/x/react-data-grid/row-selection/#customize-indeterminate-checkbox-behavior

Todo:

• [x] Add to the v8 breaking changes umbrella issue

[mui-bot]

Deploy preview: https://deploy-preview-14247--material-ui-x.netlify.app/

Updated pages:

• docs/data/data-grid/row-selection/row-selection.md

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