feat: add a name order with the last name outside of brackets

[andrewaylett]

This fixes #6285.

Where nicknames are used as diminutives of full first names, it (hopefuly) makes sense to indicate as such in both the full name and short name fields.

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[flyinprogrammer]

It would be great to have this feature ported to chandler, it was the first thing my significant other asked about 😂

Looks like this is sort covered already: https://docs.monicahq.com/user-and-account-settings/manage-preferences#customize-contact-names

though it would be nice if the template allowed for some logic, like optionally showing a nickname in brackets but only if it exists.