chore(NODE-6272): update dev dependencies and add dependabot config

[baileympearson]

Description

What is changing?

Updates development dependencies and adds a Rust/npm dependabot config.

Is there new documentation needed for these changes?

What is the motivation for this change?

Double check the following

• [ ] Ran npm run format:js && npm run format:rs script
• [ ] Self-review completed using the steps outlined here
• [ ] PR title follows the correct format: type(NODE-xxxx)[!]: description
  • Example: feat(NODE-1234)!: rewriting everything in coffeescript
• [ ] Changes are covered by tests
• [ ] New TODOs have a related JIRA ticket