fix conflict of param grouping and filter bn bias

[SamitHuang]

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Motivation

目前create_optimizer的params 如果包括自定义的分组参数策略，会与filter_bias_and_bn参数（默认True）冲突。该 PR增加了分组参数校验规避此冲突。

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