enhance: Add `partition-loaded` and make `force-release` selectable

[congqixia]

See also #255

This PR:

• Add show partition-loaded command to list partitions loaded
• Make force-release able to specify collection id
• Rewrite force-release command with new framework
• Some minor format/parameter usage fix

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/lgtm