chore: do not select a disabled option

[dgozman]

Also, disabled optgroup should make all options disabled.

Fixes #36376.

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Test results for "tests 1"

5 flaky

:warning: [firefox-library] › library/inspector/cli-codegen-1.spec.ts:986:7 › cli codegen › should not throw csp directive violation errors @firefox-ubuntu-22.04-node18
:warning: [firefox-page] › page/page-wait-for-function.spec.ts:104:3 › should work with strict CSP policy @firefox-ubuntu-22.04-node18
:warning: [chromium] › headerView.spec.tsx:46:1 › should toggle filters @web-components-html-reporter
:warning: [webkit-page] › page/page-screenshot.spec.ts:345:5 › page screenshot › should work while navigating @webkit-ubuntu-22.04-node18
:warning: [playwright-test] › ui-mode-test-watch.spec.ts:145:5 › should watch all @windows-latest-node18-1

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