fused conv dimension fix

[kiennguyen94]

Description:

• In Cuda EP, op FusedConv, when Y dimension is changed, also change the Z dimension to match.

Motivation and Context

• Fixes CUDNN error in FusedConv when Z dimension does not match Y dimension. This can happen when Y dimension is automatically changed. Eg Z is [1, 1024, 16] whereas Y is [1, 1024, 16, 1]
• Fixes [11548](https://github.com/microsoft/onnxruntime/issues/12321), https://github.com/microsoft/onnxruntime/issues/11548, and https://github.com/microsoft/onnxruntime/issues/9194
• The fix is as follow:
  • When Y dim is changed, try to match Z dim by:
  • Checking if z_dim is 1 less than y_dim and the last dimension of Y is 1; if true, add last y_dim[-1] to z_dim
  • Then check every dimension of Y and Z matches, return error before attempting CUDNN calls.

[yuslepukhin]

Thanks for your effort.